Prompts for A Funeral Message

I have used these questions in talks with folks preparing funeral services for years. They are often helpful in bringing out memories that can be considered in preparing a sermon or eulogy.

I found these decades ago in a Ministry magazine, apologies to the original author. I included them here for my reference and other’s consideration and use.

1. What is one descriptive word you would use to describe him?
2. Did she have any particular loves or hobbies?
3. Did he enjoy any particular songs, poems, or Scriptures?
4. If you could name one value or lesson she wanted to teach the next generation, what would it be?
5. What is the one accomplishment that would make his face light up when you mentioned it?
6. What were some of her favorite phrases or sayings?
7. Did she ever put anything up on the wall — a picture, a motto, a clipping that expresses who she really was?
8. Did he like and use his first name? How did he introduce himself? What nicknames did he have?
9. Was there a cause or movement that she felt deeply about and supported with time and treasure? What was it?
10. If he could have me say one thing during the service, what do you think it would be?
11. Why is the world a little different because of her?
12. What will you miss most about him?